Gabe and I woke up the morning after Halloween with a glorious 8 hours of sleep. Who knew that it would be the last time we would sleep before we were parents, or that we would sleep together in the bed
together for any stretch of time!
After washing my face, and brushing my teeth... we grabbed up my 24 hour 'sample', and jumped into the car. We headed back to Wesley Medical Center... soon to be our home away from home. We dropped off my sample at the lab, and after giving them another 4 vials of blood, we were on our way. Gabe & I were starving, and decided a huge breakfast at Denny's was just what the Dr. ordered, while we waited on what the Dr. was going to order!
McBaby enjoyed a Belgium waffle topped with strawberries and whipped creme, an English muffin, orange juice, and coffee for it's last meal in mommy's tummy. After we were stuffed to our gills... and still waiting on a call with my lab results... we decided to go to Daddy's favorite store, Menards. Since we were so unprepared the day before at the hospital, we decided to get a few things for a 'Daddy Bag'. We walked Menards, got Gabe some beef jerky, and some old style red licorice for myself. At around noon, we decided to head home so that I could shower and get ready for my weekly Dr's appointment, that we had scheduled from the week prior.
After a very long shower (which I now cherish).... I missed a call from Dr. Jensen's office on my cell phone. I was in our spare bedroom, and couldn't get to it fast enough. I immediately called them back, and they said they would have Dr. Jensen's nurse call me back because she was on the phone with another patient. Why were they calling? My appointment was only 30 minutes away? We were actually getting ready to head to their office now? Where my results bad? Where they ok, and just confirming my appointment?? A hundred questions went through my head in the whole two minutes it took for Dr. Jensen's nurse, Stephanie, to call me back. Stephanie said that my test results were back, and my protein levels had been over 400. They only needed the level to be over 300 in order to diagnose me with mild preeclampsia. She said not to come to my Dr.'s appointment, but instead to head to the hospital to get induced. She was really excited for us, and congratulated me! Ready or not, this baby was going to come soon!!
Gabe was in the room when I got off the phone with Stephanie... I remember telling him we were having the baby today, hugging him, and probably squeezing out a few more pregnancy tears!! Gabe was so excited, and kicked into Daddy mode. He got our hospital bag, his "Daddy Bag", the car seat... everything we would need before/during/after our stay at the hospital. As many of you know... I was worried that Gabe might be super stressed out, which would stress me out more... but he was wonderful. Taking care of business, and actually 100% calming for me. We took a few photos right before we got into the car and headed to the hospital...
I even took a photo of Gabe's dashboard showing the time/temp of when we went to the hospital. :)
We had made just a few phone calls before we left the house to our parents letting them know the news. When we arrived at the hospital, we saw my mom pull into the parking garage while we were walking in the door. The family was starting to arrive... I couldn't believe that everything was going to start soon, so surreal!! We went upstairs, and started getting checked in with the front desk... we were practically pros since we had just gone through all of this the following morning. We sat down in the waiting room at around 2:30, and around 3:00 they brought us back to the room that we would labor, deliver, and have a full day of recovery in.
In a short 30 minutes, I had changed into my fashionable hospital gown, got hooked up to the monitors that would track my contractions, and baby's heart rate... and they had started working on my IV's, which in my case are always fun. My first nurse, Sierra was amazing. She had just graduated the previous May from WSU. She could not have been sweeter, and answered all of my questions, which were not few. I told her that my veins are not fun to start IV's in, which I remember from when I had my wisdom teeth removed. She said she wasn't even going to try, and had another nurse on the floor run the IV instead. Once the IV was in, they started the Magnesium. This was supposed to lower my blood pressure. They had me on a high dose right away... which left me feeling like I drank an entire bottle of wine. I felt super hot, and completely out of it. Lights were on, but no one was at home. In the meantime, they had a couple other nurses come in to try to start an IV in my other arm... just in case they needed to give me more medicine, or if they had to rush me in for a C-section, they had another IV already started. After about 4 stabs in my right arm, the new nurse, and the new new nurse gave up. So, now my right arm was throbbing, bleeding, and I felt like I was stuck in a blender of hot coffee. Bleh. Everyone cleared out of the room at that point, which let me regroup, and also come to the realization that this was real... it was happening, whether I liked it or not! The 'unknown' of delivering my baby was going to be soon a memory.
About an hour later, Dr. Jensen's orders to start the induction had finally been received by the hospital, and they started the Pitocin. When we arrived at the hospital, I was dilated to 1.5, and was 50% effaced. The same I had been from the previous week. Since we had arrived, I had dilated to a 2 on my own. They started the Pitocin, which would speed the labor up, and also put a balloon (sorry - forgot the technical name) in my cervix to force my body to dialate quicker. They also inserted a cathator, because Dr. Jensen didn't want me up and moving around with all the medicine they were giving me. The magnesium, even after the dosage had been lowered, still head my head loopy.
After they placed my cathator, I felt a severe, sharp, stabbing pain. I kept telling the nurse I thought she had done it wrong (this was not Sierra, but her lunch-replacement who placed the cathator). The nurse had told me that it would hurt less than the balloon being placed. No way, it was horrible!! Well... she was right, the cathator didn't hurt... the balloon that they had previously placed was working... I was having my first 'real' contraction. Woah. Now I knew what to expect, and to fear what was to come!!
I'm the type of person if I'm in pain, or I'm sick... I don't want anyone around. I was no different in this case... besides the fact I did want Gabe around. I wouldn't let him leave my side for much more than a few minutes at a time. We had been in labor for a few hours now, and I asked Gabe to send in the family who had come to the hospital... but just two at a time, and just for a few minutes each. I wanted to see my family so bad, but I was not about to have a whole load of people in the room while I was having a contraction, or when they came in to do another countless 'check'. I have no idea how some women have the whole gosh darn family in there the whole time. I think my head would have exploded! My nurse Sierra said that one lady had 25 family members PLUS all the doctors in the room when her baby was born. No. Thank. You.
My parents came in first, and it was so great to see them. There is nothing like the love and support from your mom and dad. And, I really do think you have a new sense of love for your mom, when you go through labor yourself. You have no idea what they went through for you, until you go through it yourself. I got to update them on everything that was happening, and got through two (small) contractions while they visited. Then Gabe's folks came in. Gabe's mom brought me a small KSU bear to the hospital. She was so sweet to think of me, but Gabe said if I was going to hold it through a contraction, it should have been a Jayhawk instead. :) I was so excited that Gabe's parents had made it down to be here with us! The contractions started getting worse with their visit, and I told Gabe that if I was going to see Jason/Alex before things got bad, I needed to see them now. So, Gabe the messenger went out the door to get the next contestants. Jason and Alex didn't get but 5 feet inside the door when I was having the worst contraction yet. At the same time, Dr. Peregrin (yep - the same one who spent the prior day with us) had came back in to check the balloon that was placed in my cervix. Jason/Alex got ushered out, and would have to wait until I could collect myself. I told Dr. Peregrin before she checked that I thought that the balloon was 'out', and sure enough it was! I was now dilated to a 4.5!!
The Dr. was happy with my progress, and Sierra, my nurse told me to try to rest when I could. I told her if I was going to do any 'resting', I wanted my epidural as soon as I could. Although the balloon was out, the Pitocin was still dripping away, and the contractions were getting stronger, and much closer together. Sierra talked to Dr. Peregrin, and called Dr. Jensen to get approval for my epidural. In the meantime, I got to see Jason/Alex... finally!! I told them when I needed 'progress' to happen, I would call for them.... they were good luck, because we were moving right along!!
I'm glad that 'hospital time' did not come into play when you're in actual labor. Sierra was back, and told us that the anesthesiologist would be in soon, and she was right! They had me lean over the side of the bed, Gabe sat in a chair in front of me, and I grabbed both his hand, and Sierra's hand to get through having the epidural placed. Compared to a contraction, it was nothing. The 'pressure' was the hardest thing for me to get through, but I felt no pain until the Dr. was removing the needle from my back. But, it was a short, sharp pain, and it was over... and relief was coming soon!!
After my epidural was placed, I almost immediately felt some relief. The anesthesiologist's assistant also stayed and showed me a 'magic button' I could press when the pain was too strong for even the epidural. Then it would pump extra medicine in to help with the pain. I wouldn't need that for a few hours, but it was nice to know it was there!!
After I had my drugs, I asked Gabe to send in the rotation of family again. My attitude had completely changed with the lack of pain!! I'm sure I was much more pleasant to be around too!!
My progress was moving right along after the epidural was placed, because I was no longer working against the contractions. My body was relaxed, and we just had to wait it out now. I was keeping my fingers crossed that the baby would be born on 11-1-11, because the date was so neat. However, the time was creeping up on 11:00, and I knew I was going to loose my nurse Sierra soon! So, 11-1-11 came to a close, and 11-2-11 arrived.